Dream Come True
I woke up from a happy dream this morning. It's really a wonderful start of the day!
Qianyi refused to go to school yesterday. The moment she saw her school uniform, she started crying. She pulled her pyjamas down with all her strength when I tried to take it off. I managed to change her into her uniform but her face was already full of tears. When I opened the door, she ran away from me and cried so hard. She looked distressed and I failed to calm her down. So she missed school yesterday.
I called Teacher Linda, her class teacher later yesterday. I asked if Qianyi has been scolded in school. She told me Qianyi's scared of the Clay teacher because it's the only male teacher there. Qianyi ran to Teacher Linda and grabbed her hand the other day when she saw the Clay teacher. She felt better when Teacher Linda told her she didn't need to see him if she didn't want to. Teacher Linda suggested me to bring Qianyi to school today in her home clothes and put her uniform in her school bag. She would change her in school.
However, I decided to let her go to school in her uniform. I don't want her to feel "cheated". She woke up happily but started crying when I showed her the uniform. She refused to change into it but didn't struggle much. I repeated what I did in my dream. I kept talking to her. I told her she's a good girl and a brave girl. She shouldn't cry and Teacher Linda will give her Yakult to drink. I kept talking to her on the way to school. I spoke in both English and Mandarin..."你是好宝宝,你是勇敢的小孩,不可以哭哦!老师会给你 Yakult 喝!" I actually don't know which language she prefers to use. So I tried to say the same things twice. She seemed to understand what I told her. She whined but didn't cry. By the time we reached school, she was ok and walked into the school carrying her school bag. It's such a relief...my dream has come true...hahaha...




8 Comments:
Seems that school uniform has some 'power' which will make the kids cry huh? :P
Good that you managed to talk her round, and i believe Qianyi is a brave little girl, she'll overcome her fears one day...just give her time..and lots of love! :)
Jia you! :)
Time to pull out from the clay making class? Can ask for a refund?
My little one was terrified of a certain uncle in the provision shop too, she will start crying whenever we go near that store.
Ethyl also cry when she sees uniform abt 2 weeks back...
what mom did was, put the U in her bag and get the teachers to change for her when she's in school :) It works for her! :)
I think kids does go thru a phase of crying when they have to go to school since they are still so young. No worries, Qianyi is a smart gal, i believe she'll be fine very soon :)
Well done Mommy & Qianyi *clap clap* Both of you tried your best :)
She is really scared of her clay teacher hor!!! Perhaps should redraw her from the clay class for the moment, start again when she is ready.
blurblur,
This is the first time she refused to put her uniform on. She used to wear it happily.
I'll "jia you"..hope I'll be able to help her overcome her fears. :p
lichin,
Pull out? I don't think they will refund me...But I've never asked. I still hope she gets to play with the clay..it's fun. It should be alright to let her play on her own outside the class.
fannie,
She's getting smarter now..so I don't think putting her uniform in her school bag is a good idea. She remembers the route to school too. I think I should let her know she's going to school no matter she's crying or not. Just want her to accept it and try to make her feel better and hope she'll be braver.
immomsdaughter,
thanks....:)
jan,
There are only four more sessions.. I'll try my best to help her go through this insecure stage.
很佩服你的耐心。。。
我很幸运荦怡没为我带来这方面的考验,我也许没你坚强。。。
Well done Kelly!!
我想,当妈妈的都对自己的小孩特别有耐心吧!我要先显示自己勇敢的样子,她才会尝试学习勇敢。若让她看到我害怕紧张,她会哭个不停。
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